A MAN THAT REALLY LOVES HIS WIFE WOULD DIE FOR HER.
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her,

A WOMAN WHO REALLY LOVES HER HUSBAND WILL RESPECT HIS GODLY AUTHORITY.
Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.